Read this slowly and let it soak in.

These are the core reasons you may be having a hard time.

#1 You see your child as an opponent rather than a teammate. 

Let that soak in. When your child is losing it you see him as trying to take you down, taking you for granted or driving you insane....

Three 4 year old children were playing together.

Girl A: Who should I give this stick to?

Girl B and Boy: Me, me, me!

Girl A: I can’t give it to you. You are not my same color.

Which response did I coach…?
You’re not picking a color. You are picking a friend.

That’s it....